I'm at the mall with Mini right now. Seeing couples is such a sight for me. I've never had a man that I went out to public places with. I always wonder if the man really wants to be with the girl. How did she get him to come with her? Is it annoying him for her to hold his hand. She's not that pretty. How'd she get him to do this? And then I start to feel sad and wonder why I'm not good enough.
Ive been blessed to be in relationships where I was loved and it was shown by his actions in many ways. When a man loves you....you don't have to pressure him for anything. It will be effortless and he will plan activities and dates. He will want to show the world how much he loves you. So, it's not always a case of the woman pressuring him. Looks play no role when it's real love and someone is really in to you.
ReplyDeleteGirl sometimes I wonder the same things, but like anonymous said when a man loves you, you dont have to pressure him to do anything. I had to learn that the hard way. Just know that you are good enough & the right man will come along :-)
ReplyDeleteFirst... POPPPPPPPPYYYYYY! hey girlie!
ReplyDeleteYeah you guys are right. It just gets me so down. I sat on Crab's bed and cried while he said the same things you guys did.
It just gets me down...
This made me sad. You ARE good enough!
ReplyDeleteMakes me sad. Because there is a lot of me that thinks I'm not but I fight it. One day maybe tomorrow I'll write about it. Where it stems from.
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