I am trying not to continue the vicious cycle of raising a child that feels rejected. I try to give Mini affection often but...
THIS DAMN KID WON'T GET OFF ME!
He is always touching me rubbing me. Looking at me with puppy dog eyes and saying "kiss?" Or "hug?"
IT GETS ON MY DAMN NERVES! His dirty little kid fingers are always all over me. If I give us a foot of space he is either gonna
A: slowly creep over little by teeny little until BOOM he's on right on me
B: Lean his body over until he's damn near laying in my lap
Sometimes I let him but sometimes I tell him to stop touching me stop touching me stop touching me. I don't want to be mean but to me someone constantly touching me is like locking me in a coffin with 100 torantulas.
See!? No y'all couldn't see. He just perched himself to GET ON ME. Not near me. Not next to me. ON. ME.
I yelled DUDE NO!
Now he's crying.
For real... I give him affection but he's just MAD EXTRA with it. I try to keep a happy medium. But he just makes it an annoying double XL.