Friday I took a half day so I could have a little special time with my Mini. We went to the mall and I let him pick out a hat from Lids and get his name put on it. I bought him Sneakers... the most impractical sneakers ever. They were white on white on white on white. But they were what he wanted so I bought them. It was a special little day. I didn't bark at him (like I do a lot) I didn't rush him. I just enjoyed him. It was so special to me and so special to see how much he loved the stuff I bought him.
Last night I was in the kitchen, cutting my veggies for today and Mini comes in and says to me.
"Did Daddy buy me these sneakers and this hat?"
M: Why would you say that?
"I asked daddy why he never buys me anything and he says he paid for my hat and my sneakers."
I told him to go watch tv and I immediately picked up the phone.
M: Hello. Don't you ever tell Mini that the things I do for him are because of child support.
X; I didn't...
M: No you did. You told him that you paid for the hat and sneakers I bought him.
X: I didn't say that I paid for it. That's not what I...
M: Listen, I'm not gonna play a game of what exact words you said to him. We both know what you were insinuating. He is seven years old and child support is none of his business.
I shelter him, I make sure he has breakfast lunch and dinner, I pay for before care, I pay for after care, I pay for boxing, I pay for golf lessons, I pay for camp. I pay for extras. I take care him. And it's hard to do all by myself. I waited for my payday and took time off of my job to go get him those sneakers and that hat. And you try and take claim for that? Don't you ever try and diminish the things I do for him by telling him it's because of money I got from you.
Then I hung up
This NWord better realize I am not the same person that let him treat me like shit and he better not mess with me.