That Foos-ball

So tomorrow Mini is going to the gym.  We are gonna try this football program at the gym Homeboy goes to. Homeboy sounds more excited than Mini!  Its so cute.  He wanted us to come yesterday but it was date night for Mini and I.  When I told him that Mini and I hadn't made it to date night he was like "Why didn't you guys come to the gym then?!"  I promised him we would come on Thursday. He knows the agony that I felt watching Mini do basketball so he says for me not to worry he'll be there with Mini if I don't want to watch.

I like that. :)

Gold Star for Homeboy

Just Babbling

Nothing to report on the man front.  Obviously Crab and I made up and things are okay right now.  I don't know what's going on in his noggin.  But as for mine things are good.  I love him as much as always. 

Homeboy.  Same old same old.  Apparently this weekend he didn't feel well.  I didn't call him because number one I was with Crab and number two because... I just didn't.  And I didn't call him Monday all day either.  Monday night he was a tad bit bent out of shape about me not calling him back when I said I would Friday but I didn't care much because he could have called me.  And if he doesn't feel well he should say that.  I've been trying to beat that into his head for as long as I've known him.  He thinks that I should know how he is and not get upset and I feel he should know how I am and be considerate and let me know he's gone into Homeboy Hibernation Mode   I don't think it's a lot to ask to not let more than 16 hrs pass before reaching out.  

Other than that, he wants me to put Mini in football camp at his gym.  We shall see.  Just trying to expose him to as many things as possible to see what sticks.  Ya know?

Homeboy and I were supposed to go to church Sunday but obviously neither one of us was concerned because we didn't go.  Our mothers happen to go to the same church so he was all "We should go to church and surprise them".  But we never did.  Maybe another Sunday.  

The -C

Oh my Mini.  What to do with him?  I finally opened his report card. I don't even know when I actually got it.  I'm never in a rush to open it.  I know he knows how to read.  He knows his math.  I see him do it every night so... there isn't much to see other than this bitch's complaints about his behavior

All A's and B's and

a -C.

In Behavior/Listening

He can't help it!  If he could he wouldn't have a -C.  Because he doesn't like doing bad.  He likes being good.  But he just can't control himself.  There's not enough reward and positive enforcement in the world.  And you know what, his behavior is obviously not affecting his learning.

But I made a Doctor's appointment to discuss it.  Sigh.... Oh Mini... He's just so full of Life and Energy!

Who am I to medicate his joie de vivre?

Ummmm....  I really would like Lynn and Ice Cold to come back around. Lynne said she'd be back soon but

***Looks at watch***

***Flips Calendar***

that was like forever ago.

And Ice, he never promised anything.  But I like having Ice around for that nice male perspective.  I mean, there's always UN  but he's off making music for the masses and being Dad of the Year which are both very important jobs.

I have an aunt who has been truly an angel to me!  We've never been particularly close.  After my Grandmother died when I was around 6 years old no one really bothered to be close.  I mean we aren't estranged, just you know... not as close as family should be I guess.  but in the past couple of years she has really put a lot of effort into keeping in touch.  she sends money and gifts for EVERYTHING!  like... Happy St. Patrick's Day!  Here's some money!  This was a gonna be a tight week for me financially. But, she just called and said "Hey check your mailbox.  There's money in there for you.  I figured you might need some."

I gotta do something nice for her!

That's a First!

Well The weekend was uneventful sort of... I guess me spending the night at Crab's was eventful because I've never really spent the night before.  I'd always get up and run off like my coach was going to turn into a pumpkin.  I'd do this at 4am, 5am even 6am.   I'd just kind of lay there wondering when it would be either ok for me to leave or was it ok for me to stay.  Friday I laid down probably around 8:00pm with absolutely no intention of leaving.  I came over in my sleepwear and got cozy.  And in the morning I definitely felt my usual "Run!  Run!  Where are your shoes?!?!?!?  Hurry up!  Get Out of here!" but I resisted and put on a movie to watch.  Then he seemed to want something different than our usual Dunkin Donuts breakfast which suggested to me he didn't want me to run off.  And I was there until like 2:30 and the only reason I left was because  my mother was like "Ummm.... come get your child.  And hurry up." Otherwise, I would have put on another movie and kept chilling.  So it was kind of a first.

Last night Mini and I went over there to watch the All-Star game.  It was so/so.  Mini and him are more than acquainted but Mini is hyper (as I told you before).  So I don't bring him with me often b/c being hyper combined with him just being excited to be there turns into super hyper.  It's just not a situation for relaxing.

Sigh...... (good sigh)

Had a great Friday Saturday with Crab.  Well... last night we just slept.  I caught up on the Braxtons while he drifted in and out I think when he was sleeping I was awake and then while I was sleeping he was awake. Then this morning woke up and he wanted fish and grits.  So we ate, relaxed, I watched a movie he did his facebooking twittering we watched Teen Mom 2.  I love watching tv with him because we always have great discussions about what we're watching.  Then my mother called and was ready for me to pick up Mr. Mini.  I wish I could have stayed though.  We are like perfect chill partners.  We just relaaaaax.  Watch tv... relaaaax moooore. This is a first for me.  Never had that with anyone.  Where we just chill out together and talk and laugh. I love that about him. We're actual friends you know.  Not just sex partners.