Say What?

Not reading into anything but...

Saturday I was getting out of MD's car and I was like

M: Okay, I'll see you Monday.

and he was all...

MD: Bye, Love you.

Huh?

Dude...

Don't...

I was like...

M: Bye

lol

The Apple Didn't Fall Far

This just happened and I'm cracking up on the inside....

Watching TV.  Me and Mini and Crab (yeah he's not gone yet).  Commercial for BlackPeopleMeet.com comes on

Mini:  Mommy you should go on that website! You could probably meet a nice man to date!

Wow Mini with the passive aggressive shot at Crab!  He deserved it too!

DEAL BREAKER

Well I will tell you all it's for the best.  Especially for me.  There was one HUGE thing that I felt I couldn't deal with.  Worst than the no sex.  Worst than the no job.

I don't like the way he treats Mini.  It has always been a point of contention for me.  It has bothered me for a long time.  When he was living in his house it was one thing because I just didn't have mini around him that much. But now that he is in my home it just can't continue

He refuses to acknowledge my son.  Example

Mini: Wow Crab!  You have 3 of the same laptops
(Silence)
Mini: You have 3 of the same laptops?
(Silence)
Mini: Are all 3 of those laptops the same?
Me: Mini I don't think he heard you.
Crab: (to me not Mini) No they aren't the same. They're different.

See... I can't take that.  I just can't.  You heard my son ask you a question 3 times.  Then won't answer him directly.  AND I know for a fact that he heard him and just decided to ignore him because I never repeated the question.  That's just nasty.  Nasty.

Mini is a good kid.  I have tears in my eyes just typing this.  He is a good kid.  Smart.  Funny.  Caring.  He has never been disrespectful.  He doesn't deserve it.

So about a week ago I brought it up.  I said that I don't like the way he treats him.  He said it's not like I beat him.  He made all types of lame excuses and reasons why he treats my son the way he does and I ended the conversation with this....

He has an son the same age as Mini who loves hundreds of miles away.  The mother is now married. 

"How would you like it if Kim's husband treated Justin the way you treat Mini?  How would you like knowing that Justin had to live in a home with a grown man that purposely ignored him?"
(He admitted he wouldn't like it but then said it's different because that's Kim's husband)  So I said
"So because it is written on a legal document it changes what affects it would have on a child?  You came to his home.  And now he is made to feel uncomfortable in the one place that he's supposed to feel most comfortable.  I really don't want an answer.  I just want you to just give thought over the next few days.  Think about Justin and put him in Mini's place."

He still ignores my child.

This is just ONE of the things I don't like about his feelings towards Mini.

He's got to go.

End of story.

Welp

Crab packed his things up this morning and is leaving.

Unsure of how I feel about it.  If anything I feel sad but sometimes it takes me a while when something happens to feel any emotion at all.

Rambles

So I'm in the office basically doing nada.  MD isn't here but I can see from her car outside that his funky ass wife has decided to hang around like a sour dishrag today.  She needs a hobby.

Mind you I would never talk nasty about her if she hadn't confronted me.  She's an idiot.  I would say the best way to keep someone you don't trust from fucking your husband is to befriend her.  What an dumbass. 

Anyway...

Flash Post 2 - Drunken Style

Hmmmm

I don't think I'm true blue relationship material.  I think I'm a play the field forever type of chick.